A Nigerian lady, who gave her name as Ceedars Queen has taken to a public forum to seek for advise after she lied to her fiance in 2014 that she was a virgin despite losing her virginity at 15 to a man who had sex with her.
According to the troubled lady, she did vagina tightening, had sex with her fiance and it was like the whole process of deflowering again. Now they are both getting married this December and she’s confused if she should open up to him before their wedding.
Read what she wrote below…
When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn’t get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating throughout my university days.
I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after.
It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn’t want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.
The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there’s a secret between us. We’ve done the necessary intro. I don’t know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he’s the only man I’ve been with?